"ancora imparo"

Does it really matters how people looks at you? What matters most is how you looks at yourself..I used to have this motto in life since l was a teenager (many moons ago), "Nothing venture,nothing gained..." I wonders now if l still have that gutsy feeling that l have during my school days- secondary till university...is it because l have grow up? Is it because now that l am a young adult...i tend to be more conscious of myself...others comments- be it kind or cruel...is it really matter what others think...i think i should always do self-reflection...to reflect...to lead a better lifestyle..to be a better person..to be a kinder person to others and yourself since you only have one life on earth till the Lord calls you home...one should always be true to yourself...what's wrong if you express your likings to someone new...is that really that bad...is it wrong to leave messages and wait for reply...is it a heinous crime to ask for cellphone nos just because you happen to be a lady...why do human beings like to subject themselves such tortures...i would like to think that there is nothing wrong with wanting to know people more...genuine wanting to get to know people better...to help others, to be a listening ear, to leave the world knowing that you have certainly touch someone's heart...that the world is such a better brighter place because you have made an impact on someone's life...as for me, l am still constantly learning...learning to accept myself for who l am and rejections are part of growing up...